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The Self-Control Pendant

💜 Keeps you calm under pressure
🧠 Quiets mental clutter
✨ Builds confidence from within

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    DESCRIPTION

    Don’t let emotions dictate your actions. This pretty pendant can help keep you centered, even in times of stress. Bring back the element of self-control!

    Purple Fluorite is a peaceful stone. Its calm vibrations bring your mood to a place of happiness. It helps increase mental activity, encouraging thoughtful decision making in your day to day life. This is a fantastic stone to use if you’re experiencing spiritual discomfort or too much stress around the house. Relax, take a deep breath, and use Purple Fluorite to guide you back to what’s important. 

    When you have many thoughts passing through your mind at the same time, Amethyst helps soothe your mind so that you can slow down, prioritize, and focus on one thing at a time. It encourages inner peace that empowers you to be less swayed by your emotions and more composed instead.

    Opal is a stone that’s all about self-worth. It’s a real go-getter with enthusiasm to match! Express yourself truly and let your creative and artistic ideas flow. You have so much power, and with these three stones, you can take the reins once and for all. 

    Be the driver of your life’s journey!

    Affirmation: Use confidence-enhancing affirmations such as “I am in control of my life” to constantly remind yourself of your power.


    As the necklace is made of natural stones, the colors may vary slightly from stone to stone, making each one utterly unique.

    Size & Materials

    DIMENSIONS

    • Pendant size: 0.8 x 2.2 in (20 x 55 mm)
      Necklace length: 19.7 in (50 cm)
      Weight: 0.7 oz (20 g)

    MATERIALS

    • Item type: pendant
      Material: Fluorite, Amethyst, Opal (synthetic), copper
      Color: transparent, purple, white
    SHIPPING & RETURNS

    SHIPPING

    • Fast 2-4 Day US Shipping for just $6.95
    • FREE US Shipping for orders above $79
    • We ship worldwide
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    RETURNS

    • Every order comes with 30-day money-back guarantee.
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      Dawn B.
      Verified Buyer
      4 hours ago
      Rated 5 out of 5 stars
      Beautiful Color

      What a beautiful Pendant!!! One of my best purchases yet!! I love the weight of it around my neck!

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      Larry
      3 weeks ago
      Rated 1 out of 5 stars
      1 Star

      First off the wrong pendant was sent, ok no biggee it happens but they are "investigating" like I'm a criminal. I've sent the pics they've asked for and now they are asking again for the same thing. Send me a prepaid return label, after so many emails, I'll send you back what you sent, then refund my original payment and we are done and I'll never order from you again!

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      Conscious Items
      3 weeks ago

      Hi Teresa, we're truly sorry for the frustration this has caused. This is not the experience we want for you. We've already sent you an email regarding this matter, so please check your inbox when you have a moment. We'll be happy to review everything and provide the best possible solution for you. Thank you for your patience. 🙏

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      Shawn
      3 weeks ago
      Rated 5 out of 5 stars
      5 Stars

      I love the look.

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    FAQs

    What is this pendant commonly associated with?
    The Self-Control Pendant brings together Purple Fluorite, Amethyst, and Opal, three stones commonly associated with calm, focus, and emotional balance. It’s often chosen when you want to slow down, think clearly, and respond instead of react.
    Who is this product for?
    This one’s for anyone who feels ruled by stress, mood swings, or racing thoughts. If you want a daily reminder that you are in control of your choices, not your emotions, this pendant is a strong piece to keep close.
    Can I wear this daily?
    Yes, and we hope you do. Wear it close to your heart when you want to feel centered and composed. Remove it before showering, swimming, sleeping, workouts, or applying lotions and perfume to protect the cord and stones.
    How should I cleanse it?
    Use gentle cleansing methods for this pendant. Rest it on selenite, place it under moonlight, or pass it through cleansing smoke. Avoid water, salt, harsh cleaners, and long direct sunlight, since Fluorite and Opal are more delicate stones.
    Can I combine it with other crystals?
    Of course. Pair it with Black Tourmaline when you want stronger grounding, Clear Quartz when you want to strengthen your intention, or Rose Quartz when you want more patience and softness with yourself.
    Is each crystal unique?
    Always. Each Conscious Items product is unique, with slight variations in appearance, color, texture, shape, or finish. These natural differences make your item truly one of a kind.
    Is this gift-ready?
    Yes! It arrives in gift-ready packaging, cleansed and prepared with care. It makes a thoughtful gift for someone working on patience, emotional balance, or feeling more in control of their life.
    What if it isn’t right for me?
    No worries at all. Every order is held by our 30-day money-back guarantee. Just reach out within 30 days and we’ll work with you to find the best possible solution.
    How does shipping work?
    We've got you — fast 2–4 day US shipping is just $6.95, and it's completely free on every US and international order over $79. We ship worldwide, and every package is tracked and insured so your crystals arrive safe and sound.
    What's your return policy?
    Your journey should feel risk-free. Every order comes with our 30-day money-back guarantee, so if something isn't right, simply return it within 30 days of delivery for a full refund — no questions asked.
    Is there a warranty?
    Rather than a traditional warranty, every order is wrapped in our 30-day money-back guarantee — and if your piece happens to break within 30 days, we'll happily replace it for free.